Introduction. The article presents a socio-psychological (order) approach to the study of the aesthetic aspect of spirituality. In accordance with the ideas of S.L. Frank about the four-aspect nature of the phenomenon of spirituality, a verbal socio-psychological model of the aesthetic ideal of attitude towards another person is constructed, on the basis of which a survey technique (questionnaire) is developed to study the ideas about the aesthetic ideal of attitude towards another person among respondents of different ages. Theoretical analysis.